This is a response I put in to a conversation on MyRedBook.com – a place where I advertise and that has a forum.Â
Alrighty I have a lot of opinions about this thread but will stay as close to the point as possible.
I agree, a “stripper with a whip” can not only provide bad service but cause serious harm. I have utter respect for Rachel and Kayla because I have researched them and know their commitment to their craft.
I personally entered into providing fetish and kink services because at the time I was providing FBSM and was getting kink requests. I was a natural at it! Choking, spanking, ass play… I already took a dominant stance at the side of my table and when these requests were made I felt the thrill of the power exchange.
As I received more requests I learned about each kink. I also started attending classes and gatherings in our local BDSM community here in Las Vegas. I’ve never promised more than I can deliver… and I’m lucky I’ve never had an accident with a client. I’ve made my mistakes during training and private play.
In January 2011 I began offering escort services. I love sex too much and wanted the extra money it would bring. I know that some people say I’m not a “real Dominatrix” because I allow and enjoy mutual pleasure and physical intimacy with my clients/subs. What I’ve found is that there is a strong desire for that in the market place – someone who is a little softer and offering kink/fetish services in a sexual/sensual way. Not all clients want it… and that’s find. That’s also the difference between being a pro-Dom and a lifestyle Dom (for me) – As a pro I cater to their fetish for their time with me versus doing what I like and what gets me off (only) because it is a finite amount of time.
As for offering submissive services – My girlfriend telly advertises those as well as escort and sometimes body rubs. She is a masochist and we’ve basically set some ground rules and such for how she deals with her Dom clients. If they ask for something including blindfolds and/or bondage then they have to hire both of us for the first session so there can be another pair of eyes in the room. They have a safe word and she knows how to express her limits. She has never had a problem.
Stay Sexy,
Nikki Ivana
I enjoy role playing with cross dressers! Yesterday I went to meet a client and I was prepared for a scene where I would be giving him humiliation and degradation while he serviced a big dildo. I was pleasantly surprised when I got soooo much more!

 I pulled my dress up and my panties to the side to show her how wet I was. Slapping it and making some noise with the wetness I explained how that would have been the pre-cum dribbling out of my cock for her to slurp down. She placed the base of the cock a few inches below my pussy so I could continue to stroke myself. With one hand I pulled back my clit hood to show her my full clit. I ran my finger up and down dipping it into my hole, getting it soaking wet and slippery, then bringing it up and running it around my clit. She reached down and played with her clit too, keeping the cock in her mouth and her eyes on my pussy. I placed a finger on each side of my clit and pumped it up and down like a little cock and she did the same to hers bringing herself to an incredibly intense climax.








