Learning to go down on a woman means understanding her pleasure anatomy — but it also requires trust, lust, and communication between both partners, no matter if it’s a one night stand or a ten-year relationship. Learning to go down on a woman means understanding her pleasure anatomy — but it also requires trust, lust, and communication between both partners, no matter if it’s a one night stand or a ten-year relationship. With a little trust and a dose of horniness, the possibilities for orgasmic cunnilingus are endless.

As a submissive i have alway been taught that “it’s not about what i want that’s important, but rather what pleases Mistress”. That’s true the majority of the time, (You can ignore this paragraph Mistress Ivana :-D ). In the case of cunnilingus, muff diving, going down, eating at the Y, etc. etc. i strongly believe that if the one doing the work (haha, it really isn’t work) has to be 100% invested in what he/she is doing and derive as much pleasure out of doing it in order for his/her Mistress to enjoy the full benefits.

When a Mistress allows me to enjoy Her sweet juices, it is a reward, and in order to show my complete appreciation, i must give 100%. Also i am a little selfish too….if i do a good enough job, maybe Mistress will “clean my pipes” one day.

As a parting gesture i leave You with this to think about: Does swollowing help or hurt ? Will doing it too often dampen Your desire to hav e full sex? Is there any time when cunnilingus is out of place.

An Unexpected Level of Intimacy With Toilet Slave

I must be honest, when I got this request I was ready to give it my best shot (so to speak) and see if I liked it even though I didn’t LOVE the idea of it.  I know I’m very intuitive and would be able to make him feel used no matter what.

– Reverse face sitting (ass on face) with deep rimming and repeated attempts by Mistress to fart into my mouth as tight seal is maintained.  If more than fart happens, it would not bother me if it does not bother Mistress.
– Golden showers with tight seal to mouth
– Face fucking with feet, toes wiggling deep in throat, training my mouth to take as much as you desire it to
– Face smothering with feet and ass

And here was my response



The truth is, I will use you as much as I can.  I know I can be full of piss for you but gas etc. is a little tougher to guarantee.  If more than gas happens I will see how I feel about it.  I don’t like the thought of it but things are different in the moment.


So we had out appointment last night and it was really amazing.  Whenever I give golden showers I have to visualize it and get over whatever level of arousal I’m experiencing to be able to pee.  This was keeping that level of focus for almost an entire hour.  Of course, we started out with the foot bath and face fucking (my feet, his face) but then we moved to the bed.  I was chugging water the whole time because I know it helps me to go if I’m full.

What made it so pleasurable is that he consistently worked his tongue the entire time as well.  I laid on him in the 69 position, put a pillow over his groin, read a magazine and drank water.  I wasn’t able to really piss like I do on the toilet due to being highly aroused but there was a pretty consistent trickle.  And that is where the intimacy came from, the fluid moving from my body to his.  I could feel it when he swallowed.

I would alternate between pussy and ass.  When my ass was on his face I would spread my cheeks and bear down.  I think it’s the deepest rimming I have ever received.  I was successful in getting several farts out into his mouth during the course of the session.  Nothing more than gas happened although he had his tongue so deep within me it was difficult to tell and I actually had to ask him for verification.

As our time came to an end I gave him some lube and watched as he masturbated and rimmed me some more.


Meeting the Mistress

Today was a most interesting day. Knowing Mistress Ivanas more in to hard play then i am, i still agreed to the possibility of serving Her as well as becoming a play partner. i was very apprehensive as to how this might work out…was i asking Her to cater to my limits, sort of topping from the bottom, or was i being realistic. i have always subscribed to the premis that it’s what pleases Mistress that’s important….my needs are secondary, however i’m not an edge player, and not sure i have the “guts” to become one.. This relationship has to be a win/win one…W/we both have to be happy and satisfied.
i went to Mistresses house to perform several tasks…mostly to give Mistress an opportunity to see if She was satisfied with my work, but also to discuss a performance contract. we discussed my limits as well as safe rules, and Her expectations. i don’t want to ruin Mistress Ivana’s reputation, but i found Her very warm and compassionate. she understood where i was coming from and was very flexible in the contract She composed. My fears were quickly erased.
To any submissive reading this, don’t ever rule out a situation because it is out of your limits. Mistress Ivana proved that the three basics of a BDSM relationshipare there and will always be there: TRUST, RESPECT, and COMMUNICATIONS. Had i ignored those today, and not trusted Mistress Ivana, i would have missed out on what may be a life changing experience.
Thank You Mistress Ivana for a wonderful morning, and i am looking forward to the future